Thursday, February 9, 2012

The Right Position

Different positions will be more comfortable for different couples, depending on the angle of the erection and the curvature of the penis. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, whether you are kneeling, lying on your back or on your side, will probably lead to a more comfortable fuck, or will be a good position to start from. This position will straighten out the anal canal and the pubo-rectal sling will draw back to allow smoother entry to the arse.

Seven basic steps for gay anal sex without any pain:

1.) Clean out your ass (to avoid a mess and skin abrasions)
2.) Turn-on with foreplay (cuddle, kiss, get hard, suck, etc.)
3.) Rim job (ass licking will help relax the muscle)
4.) Lube and finger your ass (to also relax the muscle)
5.) Dildo fuck your ass (to stretch it and lube it inside)
6.) Put on a condom (to prevent sexually transmitted infections)
7.) Fuck and cum (without any pain)

Share your techniques and advice.

The time has come to “Flip the Script.”

Black men who have sex with men suffer among the highest HIV rates of any population in the world.

A U.S. study shows that 46 percent — or one in two — Black men who have sex with men may be HIV-positive. Here in Los Angeles, reports show that 33 to 36 percent — one in three — Black men who have sex with men may be HIV-positive. In both cases, too many men are unaware of their infection. 

The time has come to “Flip the Script.”

These statistics are staggering, yet Black gay men have the power and strength to reverse them by learning about HIV and how to protect themselves and their community.

Get Tested

One essential way that you can “Flip the Script” is to know your HIV status. You can get information on the different ways to be tested and kinds of HIV tests, along with an explanation of test results, by clicking here.

For testing locations across Los Angeles County, click here.

Get Treatment

Another way to “Flip the Script” is to seek medical care if you have tested positive for HIV. With an early diagnosis and advances in the treatment of HIV, HIV-positive people can lead fulfilling, productive lives. Information about medical care and other support services offered in the care and treatment of HIV-positive people — including support groups, legal services, housing assistance, mental health services, and treatment education, to just to name a few — can be found by clicking here.

Other Ways to Flip the Script

Encourage your friends and family members to get tested for HIV/STIs.
If you are HIV-positive, get access to medical care now and learn about your treatment options.
If you are HIV-negative, find support to stay that way.
Find help if substance abuse is an issue for you.
Join a support/rap group to build and sustain a sense of community and wellness.
Utilize spiritual resources as a means to maintain wellness.
Encourage dialogue about HIV with family, friends and sexual partners.
Be open about your identity as gay or same gender loving men.
Address homophobia and racism in your community.
Become involved in HIV policy and advocacy efforts.
The African American Gay Men’s Health Initiative

“Let’s Flip the Script” is a project undertaken by the African American Gay Men’s Health Initiative (AAGMHI) and sponsored by AIDS Project Los Angeles. The mission of the AAGMHI is to advocate for the needs of Black gay men by inviting them to take part in building a community that will reduce the incidence of HIV and other STIs and promote wellness in the Black community. AAGMHI addresses co-factors such as homophobia, discrimination and other stigmas that play a role in risk-taking behavior by capitalizing on the strengths and resiliency of Black gay men.

Learn more about APLA outreach.
http://www.apla.org/prevention/aagmhi.html